Premature ejacul*tion - Diagnosis and treatment (2024)

Diagnosis

Your health care provider asks about your sex life and your health history. Your provider might also do a physical exam. If you have both early ejacul*tion and trouble getting or keeping an erection, your provider might order blood tests. The tests may check your hormone levels.

In some cases, your care provider might suggest that you go to a urologist or a mental health provider who specializes in sexual problems.

Treatment

Common treatment options for premature ejacul*tion include behavioral techniques, medications and counseling. It might take time to find the treatment or combination of treatments that work for you. Behavioral treatment plus drug therapy might be the most effective.

Behavioral techniques

In some cases, therapy for premature ejacul*tion involves simple steps. They may include masturbating an hour or two before intercourse. This may allow you to delay ejacul*tion when you have sex with your partner.

Your care provider might recommend avoiding intercourse for a period of time. Focusing on other types of sexual play may remove the pressure you might feel during sexual intercourse.

Pelvic floor exercises

Weak pelvic floor muscles might make it harder to delay ejacul*tion. Pelvic floor exercises (Kegel exercises) can help strengthen these muscles.

To perform these exercises:

• Find the right muscles. To find your pelvic floor muscles, stop urinating in midstream. Or tighten the muscles that keep you from passing gas. Both actions use your pelvic floor muscles. Once you've identified your pelvic floor muscles, you can exercise them in any position. However, you might find it easier to do them lying down at first.
• Perfect your technique. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles, hold for three seconds and then relax for three seconds. Try it a few times in a row. When your muscles get stronger, try doing Kegel exercises while sitting, standing or walking.
• Stay focused. For best results, focus on tightening only your pelvic floor muscles. Be careful not to flex the muscles in your abdomen, thighs or buttocks. Avoid holding your breath. Instead, breathe freely during the exercises.
• Repeat three times a day. Aim to do at least three sets of 10 repetitions a day.

The pause-squeeze technique

Your health care provider might instruct you and your partner to use the pause-squeeze technique. This method works as follows:

1. Begin sexual activity, including stimulating the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejacul*te.
2. Then you or your partner can squeeze the end of your penis where the head joins the shaft. Keep squeezing for several seconds until the urge to ejacul*te passes.
3. Repeat the squeeze process as needed.

By repeating as many times as needed, you can reach the point of entering your partner without ejacul*ting. After some practice, delaying ejacul*tion might become a habit that no longer requires the pause-squeeze technique.

If the pause-squeeze technique causes pain or discomfort, you can try the stop-start technique. It involves stopping sexual stimulation just before ejacul*tion. Then waiting until the level of arousal has diminished and starting again.

Condoms

Condoms might make the penis less sensitive, which can help delay ejacul*tion. Specially designed "climax control" condoms are available without a prescription. These condoms contain numbing agents such as benzocaine or lidocaine to delay ejacul*tion. They might also be made of thicker latex. Examples include Trojan Extended Pleasure and Durex Prolong.

Medications

Topical numbing agents

Creams, gels and sprays that contain a numbing agent — such as benzocaine, lidocaine or prilocaine — are sometimes used to treat premature ejacul*tion. They're applied to the penis 10 to 15 minutes before sex to reduce sensation and help delay ejacul*tion. They're available without a prescription. However, a cream containing both lidocaine and prilocaine (EMLA) is available by prescription.

Although topical numbing agents are effective and well tolerated, they have potential side effects. They may cause decreased feeling and sexual pleasure in both partners.

Oral medications

Many medications might delay org*sm. These drugs aren't approved by the Food and Drug Administration to treat premature ejacul*tion, but some are used for this purpose. They include antidepressants, pain relievers and drugs for erectile dysfunction.

These medications might be prescribed for either on-demand or daily use. Also, they may be prescribed alone or with other treatments.

• Antidepressants. A side effect of certain antidepressants is delayed org*sm. For this reason, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are used to treat premature ejacul*tion. SSRIs include paroxetine (Paxil, Pexeva, Brisdelle), escitalopram (Lexapro), citalopram (Celexa), sertraline (Zoloft) or fluoxetine (Prozac).

  The SSRI dapoxetine is often used as the first treatment for premature ejacul*tion in some countries. It's not currently available in the United States.

  Of the drugs approved for use in the United States, paroxetine seems to be the most effective. These medications usually take 5 to 10 days to begin working. But it might take 2 to 3 weeks of treatment to see the full effect.

  If SSRIs don't improve the timing of your ejacul*tion, your health care provider might prescribe the tricyclic antidepressant clomipramine (Anafranil). Side effects of antidepressants might include nausea, perspiration, drowsiness and decreased sex drive.

• Pain relievers. Tramadol (Ultram, Conzip, Qdolo) is a medication used to treat pain. It also has side effects that delay ejacul*tion. Tramadol might be prescribed when SSRIs haven't been effective. Tramadol can't be used in combination with an SSRI.

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  Side effects might include nausea, headache, sleepiness and dizziness. Tramadol can become habit-forming when taken long-term.

• Phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors. Some medications used to treat erectile dysfunction also might help premature ejacul*tion. These drugs include sildenafil (Viagra), tadalafil (Cialis, Adcirca), avanafil (Stendra) and vardenafil. Side effects might include headache, facial flushing and indigestion. These medications might be more effective when used in combination with an SSRI.

Potential future treatment

Research suggests that several drugs might be helpful in treating premature ejacul*tion. But more study is needed. These drugs include:

• Modafinil (Provigil). This is a treatment for the sleeping disorder narcolepsy.
• Silodosin (Rapaflo). This drug treats prostate gland enlargement.
• OnabotulinumtoxinA (Botox). Researchers are studying whether injecting Botox into the muscles that help cause ejacul*tion can treat premature ejacul*tion.

Counseling

This approach involves talking with a mental health provider about your relationships and experiences. Sessions can help you reduce performance anxiety and find better ways of coping with stress. Counseling is most likely to help when it's used in combination with drug therapy.

With premature ejacul*tion, you might feel that you lose some of the closeness shared with a sexual partner. You might feel angry, ashamed and upset, and turn away from your partner.

Your partner also might be upset with the change in sexual intimacy. Premature ejacul*tion can cause partners to feel less connected or hurt. Talking about the problem is an important step. Relationship counseling or sex therapy also might be helpful.

Alternative medicine

Several alternative medicine treatments have been studied, including yoga, meditation and acupuncture. However, more research is needed to determine their effectiveness.

Preparing for your appointment

It's typical to feel embarrassed when talking about sexual problems. But you can trust that your health care provider has had similar conversations with many others. Premature ejacul*tion is a very common condition. And it's one that can be treated.

Being ready to talk about premature ejacul*tion will help you get the treatment you need to put your sex life back on track. The information below should help you prepare to make the most of your appointment.

Information to gather in advance

• Pre-appointment restrictions. When you make your appointment, ask if there are any restrictions you need to follow in the time leading up to your visit.
• Symptoms. How often do you ejacul*te before you or your partner would wish? How long after you begin having intercourse do you typically ejacul*te?
• Sexual history. Think back on your relationships and sexual encounters since you became sexually active. Have you had problems with premature ejacul*tion before? With whom, and under what circ*mstances?
• Medical history. Write down any other medical conditions with which you've been diagnosed, including mental health conditions. Also note the names and strengths of all medications you are currently taking or have recently taken, including prescription drugs and those you buy without a prescription.
• Questions to ask your health care provider. Write down questions in advance to make the most of your time with your provider.

Basic questions to ask your doctor

The list below suggests questions to ask your health care provider about premature ejacul*tion. Don't hesitate to ask more questions during your appointment.

• What may be causing my premature ejacul*tion?
• What tests do you recommend?
• What treatment approach do you recommend?
• How soon after I begin treatment can I expect improvement?
• How much improvement can I reasonably expect?
• Am I at risk of this problem recurring?
• Is there a generic alternative to the medicine you're prescribing?
• Are there any brochures or other printed material that I can take home with me? What websites do you recommend visiting?

What to expect from your doctor

Your health care provider might ask very personal questions and might also want to talk to your partner. To help your provider determine the cause of your problem and the best course of treatment, be ready to answer questions, such as:

• How often do you have premature ejacul*tion?
• When did you first experience premature ejacul*tion?
• Do you have premature ejacul*tion only with a specific partner or partners?
• Do you experience premature ejacul*tion when you masturbat*?
• Do you have premature ejacul*tion every time you have sex?
• How often do you have sex?
• How much are you bothered by premature ejacul*tion?
• How much is your partner bothered by premature ejacul*tion?
• How satisfied are you with your current relationship?
• Are you also having trouble getting and keeping an erection (erectile dysfunction)?
• Do you take prescription medications? If so, what medications have you recently started or stopped taking?
• Do you use recreational drugs?

What you can do in the meantime

Deciding to talk with your health care provider is an important step. In the meantime, consider exploring other ways in which you and your partner can connect. Although premature ejacul*tion can cause strain and anxiety in a relationship, it is a treatable condition.